<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post118729525910703746..comments</id><updated>2008-06-04T01:02:43.841-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on The Life Of Jacob Ryan Fahmer: "This Sucks"</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/feeds/118729525910703746/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html'/><author><name>Fahmer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05897055476558639317</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-1500908485735563954</id><published>2008-06-03T21:59:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T21:59:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Yep it does suck. Hopefully as people leave their ...</title><content type='html'>Yep it does suck. Hopefully as people leave their comments regarding Jacob's impact on their lives you will come to know his purpose in being and why you were priviliged to become his parents. His plans are for you to prosper, I know you can't imagine that right now. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage and I abandonded God for a week, but after I got biopsy results I learned that my baby saved my life. It turns out I had early stage cancer that never would have been found had I not lost that baby.There was the purpose in that terrible pain. I am continuing to pray for you and your precious family&lt;BR/&gt;Cheryl</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/1500908485735563954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/1500908485735563954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212544740000#c1500908485735563954' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-8778071703452475005</id><published>2008-06-03T01:08:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T01:08:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Keep the Faith...I don't even know you guys, but I...</title><content type='html'>Keep the Faith...I don't even know you guys, but I am praying for you and your family.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/8778071703452475005'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/8778071703452475005'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212469680000#c8778071703452475005' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-3919719121709208408</id><published>2008-06-02T23:23:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T23:23:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I just found your family through another blog. I h...</title><content type='html'>I just found your family through another blog. I have no idea what to say but please know we are praying for you all. Your baby boy is simply beautiful.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;God is always with you. Take care.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;xxxx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/3919719121709208408'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/3919719121709208408'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212463380000#c3919719121709208408' title=''/><author><name>Donna</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00630545040635228672</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-7595395607940627749</id><published>2008-06-02T19:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T19:50:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Although I want to rejoice that Jacob is with Cope...</title><content type='html'>Although I want to rejoice that Jacob is with Copeland and Eva Janette and Poppy Joy and Ellio (and I do rejoice for baby Jacob)...my heart aches in such a way today for you his family - for us who love him - I don't even know the words to say to all of you or what to pray for but I will keep on believing...I believe and so I must believe that he is in a better place with HE who makes us all whole.  I wish I could hug you - I wish I knew you in person and was there.   All of my love and thoughts and prayers to you right now.  Love, Leah in Seattle</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/7595395607940627749'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/7595395607940627749'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212450600000#c7595395607940627749' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-4542431432650413216</id><published>2008-06-02T15:42:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T15:42:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you for your honesty.  You guys, along with ...</title><content type='html'>Thank you for your honesty.  You guys, along with other families I've met along the way loving babies with Trisomy 18 have taught me the total preciousness of life.  I'd always been what I thought was pro-life before.  But I always had exceptions.  And then I met Jacob, and that all changed.  Suddenly I saw just how much God really is the author of life, and how He is the only One with the right to make any calls.  So over the months I watched you guys love and care for Jacob, protecting him and fighting for him, and it taught me that we are called to do that for the ones God entrusts to our care.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Your tiny baby Jacob and your witness as his parents has changed the heart of a girl over 4,000 miles away.  Thank you for that.  I am glad we belong to the same Jesus, because I sure will be excited to meet you all on the other side of eternity.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;May the God of all comfort walk with you constantly during your grief, and may He cling to you when you don't have the strength to cling to Him.  May you know His presence in very real ways in the coming days and months.  That is my prayer for you.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Sara in Canada</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/4542431432650413216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/4542431432650413216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212435720000#c4542431432650413216' title=''/><author><name>Inkling</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02775312085301951675</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-2030472873575522060</id><published>2008-06-02T12:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T12:28:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I was gone over the weekend and wasn't able to rea...</title><content type='html'>I was gone over the weekend and wasn't able to read your blog.  I am saddened to read that Jacob passed away.  My heart is heavy for you and your family.  You will be in my prayers.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I know I've told you this before (in comments), but Jacob was honestly one of the cutest babies I've ever seen.  His big eyes were so expressive.  His lips looked positively kissable.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Lastly, I want you to know that I have grown so much from reading your blog.  Your family is a wonderful testament.  Your faith and belief in the Lord our God is astounding.  Thank you and thanks to Jacob for helping change my life for the better :)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Love  -Jenny</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/2030472873575522060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/2030472873575522060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212424080000#c2030472873575522060' title=''/><author><name>Zac and Jenny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13862512141776453903</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-4102644305787837156</id><published>2008-06-02T12:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T12:03:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Yeah. It completely sucks. And it will suck for a ...</title><content type='html'>Yeah. It completely sucks. And it will suck for a long while.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But God will be with you.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And we'll be here, too.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hugs to you all...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/4102644305787837156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/4102644305787837156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212422580000#c4102644305787837156' title=''/><author><name>Rebecca</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17104664228769032430</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-7032522757839084552</id><published>2008-06-02T10:55:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T10:55:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh Lord God,We are so thankful that we can come be...</title><content type='html'>Oh Lord God,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;We are so thankful that we can come before you and tell you that "THIS SUCKS" and know that you agree with us.  I ask you to guide Jason as he leads his family through this valley of the shadow of death, give him wisdom, strength for each moment, and most of all your love as a Father who knows his pain. Guide and protect Jason's heart as he leads his family as he grieves his own loss.  Help him Lord with your grace and be his soft place to fall.  Let nothing come between him and Karen except you.  Carry him Lord in your loving arms.  Thank you for allowing him to be the one to give Jacob up to you, taking the burden for Karen.  Such love at a time when the pain sucks so bad. Your plan is perfect and we will trust you no matter how hard it may be.  Jacob had so much weight in this world and I pray you use it for eternity.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Laurie in Ca.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/7032522757839084552'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/118729525910703746/comments/default/7032522757839084552'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html?showComment=1212418500000#c7032522757839084552' title=''/><author><name>Laurie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15599832324966859946</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14958402318754057290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://fahmer.blogspot.com/2008/06/this-sucks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9200054123343855249.post-118729525910703746' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9200054123343855249/posts/default/118729525910703746' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>